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When they attended
Monmouth College a quarter-century ago, Bill ’85 and Margie
Kerr Myers ’85 did not find the widespread campus service
opportunities that are present today, such as Alternative Spring Break
and Students Organized for Service.
“There wasn’t a big service component in those days,” said Margie. “The
sororities did that stuff.”
But what Bill and Margie did find were positive role models, including many
who attended nearby Faith United Presbyterian Church. The church is now
their professional home, as Bill became the pastor there in 2001. Margie
is the director of church education.
“There wasn’t service in school, but it was people like Stafford
Weeks and Charles Speel and Bill Amy who were great
examples,” said Margie. “The way they went about their lives was very
influential.”
“They were men of service, who showed great humility, and they were
steadfast and faithful,” said Bill. “They lived a quality of life that
was attractive.”
It wasn’t the first time that one of those men had an influence on one
of them. Living in South Dakota, Margie likely wouldn’t have attended a
small, liberal arts college in western Illinois if not for a family
association with Weeks.
“Stafford was close to my family,” she explained. “He was friends with
my grandparents. After he left Huron (College, where her father was
president), they remembered that he had gone to work at Monmouth.”
Bill’s story of arriving at Monmouth was slightly different. Living in
nearby Moline, he was a much more likely candidate to enroll as a
freshman, and he did make a campus visit with his father on his way to
checking out Western Illinois University. Large school life won out,
however, and he spent his first year in college at the University of
Iowa. However, after a rough freshman year, he reconsidered his choice
and transferred.
The couple met during orientation. A sophomore, Margie was an
orientation leader, and Bill was one of the new kids in school. They
became a couple about a month later and “have been together ever since.”
Like current student Paige Halpin ’09, who is a member of their
church, Margie said she “got involved in pretty much everything –
Ichthyus, International Club, Highlanders, choir, theater.
“We did things in town, like CROP Walk,” she added. “We were of part of
Faith Church, and I taught Sunday school. We wanted to be a part of town
and part of real life.”
As college students, they both had epiphanies of sorts through their
connection with the church.
Said Margie, “I remember being strongly influenced by a young woman from
our congregation who went on a mission trip to Egypt around that time. I
wanted to be a part of that type of life.”
Added Bill, “I grew to appreciate the role that an institution like
Monmouth plays in shaping, not only people, but communities and other
larger than life issues.”
The ties between the college and the church are just as special to the
couple today.
“The relationship between Monmouth College and the church is very
important to us – the way both institutions work to determine what is
true and beautiful,” said Bill. “The answer is, ultimately, God. How
that plays out in people’s lives is a critical question for our time.”
When it comes to service, the college has stepped up more than once to
assist Faith Church in projects. A recent example was a special service
the church conducted to raise money for the United Nations’ Millennium
Development Goals (MDGs), several of which are being met by the church’s
Kandithankulam, India, project, which has also ties to the college, as
it was started 20 years by MC faculty members and Faith congregation
members Raj and Saro Ambrose.
“We couldn’t have done that U2Charist service without the support of the
college,” said Bill. “That’s a wonderful example of what can come from
that relationship.”
Another was the college providing support in the forms of vans, as
members of Faith’s congregation traveled to Mississippi to provide aid
to victims of Hurricane Katrina.
Said Bill of the trip, “We received so much more from the people we
visited on those hurricane relief trips than what we had to offer.
That’s what we were created to be – to love God and to love each other.
When you serve, it gives you a glimpse of what life was really meant to
be like.”
“Real relationships were formed on those trips, and some of our
congregation even went back on their own to visit the friends they had
made,” said Margie. “We are the hands of Christ. We’re to love God and
love each other. How can you show love when your neighbor is suffering?
You must attend to their needs. We reflect God when we do that.”
She added, “Ours is a very service-oriented church, and that service is
done here and abroad. Many Faith Church members have strong ties to
community service organizations, such as Helen Bersted (wife of
the late George Bersted ’42), who played a vital role in bringing
United Way to Monmouth.”
Bill and Margie said Monmouth College students serve as youth leaders at the
church, and the youth groups have also taken their service on the road
to places like Kemmerer Village, a home for children with behavioral
issues, near Decatur, Ill.
As the holidays approach, many will be stressed about what they should
be giving. Bill and Margie will say the answer is simple. Their lives have
been influenced by the generous acts of others, including many from
Monmouth College, and they’ve been able to “pay it forward” in a variety
of different ways in Monmouth and around the world. Their answer: love
your neighbor and provide help where it is needed, because service is
the gift that keeps on giving.