News
10 February 2006
Volume 118, Number 12
Valentine’s Day Etiquette
By Kaile Schreiner
Courier Staff
The old saying of “Love is in the air” has once again returned. At this time many people, especially couples, are preparing to surprise their significant others with something special.
After weeks of preparation, Feb. 14 or Valentine’s Day finally rolls around and the couples are both equally excited about the gifts they have to give. This is probably the most familiar story most people associate Valentine’s Day with, right?
In my opinion, I don’t think Valentine’s Day is all about the giving and receiving, or having a significant other; I believe this “special day” gives people a good excuse to really express their true selves.
Valentine’s Day is a good reason to be around the people you love and to appreciate their company. Now don’t get me wrong, a person shouldn’t give out all of the love and goodness for just one day and love or being loved, shouldn’t just happen on one particular day out of the whole year. Showing how much you love and care about someone should happen all year around, when you want to.
In my observation, Valentine’s Day can have two versions: the “Hallmark way,” where everything is materialistic. Or surprising the one you love with a small object of your affection.
If you happen to be a person who doesn’t have a significant other, don’t talk yourself into hating Valentine’s Day. Instead turn Valentine’s Day into a holiday where you can reconnect with family, friends or someone else who doesn’t have a significant other.
This day is a little reminder to everyone that there are people out there who love you and it should be viewed in the aspect of spending time with family, friends, and loved ones.